Monday 22 March 2010

Matchmaking


As if my family was not enough, my friends have ventured into the territory! A few of them have suggested some guys,who,they feel who would be appropriate for me.There is no end to match-making business! Everyone is interesed, you see! :D

Sometimes, I laugh at whatever is happening around me.And sometimes, it makes me sad.Other times I feel a strange kind of numbness towards the whole thing.As if I don't care at all.But I know,I do.This 'not bothered' kind of behaviour is something I pretend, to make others lose interest in finding a match for me.And I hardly ever succeed :(

Suddenly,getting me married has shifted to the top of 'to-do lists' of everyone I know! They have even set deadlines for themselves.The fact that two of my cousins who are younger than me(and supposedly doing nothing after college) are getting married this year, and it increases the pressure you see! So there is a deadline that has been set, plus, there is an increasing pressure to meet that deadline because some-one else in the family is also getting married.Isn't it ridiculous?

Sometime soon, I would be getting a call from one of the guys who thinks I am perfect for him since one of our common friends made him believe this(and even shared our pics with each other) It statred as a teezer but I had never imagined that it would go to this extent.Anyways, strange as life is, it is making me do strange things these days.

'Strange Things' remind me of something that I feel is most ackward about the whole procedure of arranged marriages! Suddenly, you become a model and you have to pose for pics that would be clicked by pros who can change the way you look!A girl next door(desprate to get married) to a supermodel(but, in a traditional outfit) in 30 seconds flat! And not to metion, your skin tone would be lightened by two shades!I have managed to not to fall into this trap and this is one battle I have not lost yet! **Feels Proud and Smiles** :D 


Expecting a call from Mr K(Common friend guy)this week!So,that would give me some more things to blog about!Being the blogger that I am, I am thinking of doing a post on all of these stupid things happening in life!


Maybe, someday, my dream-man would be reading this blog,sitting beside me! **Smiles**

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